I hold my hands up. Since the end of a long-term relationship a few months ago I’ve been a bit of a Tinder addict. Nothing rebuilds your confidence like matching a 10 out of 10. I have to admit though, in the few months of my active Tindering, I haveRead More →
You have a very naughty sub who has failed to do as they are told. How do you punish your sub and remind them who is in charge? How do you teach them a lesson and make sure they won’t misbehave again? Here are 8 things you can do to getRead More →
Each week I will be answering a question asked to me by one of my readers. For this week it’s all about vanilla sex. If you have a question you would like me to answer then please contact me here and keep your eye out for my upcoming Q &Read More →
You’ve got your partner tied up and blindfolded, but what do you do now?! You follow my sensory series on erotic sound, taste, touch and smell of course! There is nothing more exciting and erotic to me than having these four of my senses stimulated. Wearing the blindfold heightens yourRead More →
Inspired by the recent Durex hoax involving eggplant flavoured condoms, I decided to hunt for the strangest condom flavours actually on the market. When it comes to flavoured condoms most of us have tried the standard, strawberry, bubblegum, orange, chocolate etc. But, have any of you tried these crazy condomRead More →
One of the things I often hear my girlfriends complaining about is their partner’s lack of stamina. Short and sweet loving seems to be a common theme in many a bedroom and although some women don’t mind ( I don’t) some feel they’ve been left high and dry. If you’re worriedRead More →
Discovering that I was an autoandrophilia took time. I knew my desires were different to the ‘standard’ but there really wasn’t much information on it available online. Why did I fantasize about having a male body? Shouldn’t I be fantasizing about having sex with a man, not actually being aRead More →
In light of the current ecosexual bathhouse at the Sydney LiveWorks Festival of experimental art, I decided to do a blog post about ecosexuality. Ecosexuality is a romantic and sexual love of nature and the earth. It is a form of environmental eroticism. An ecosexual may buy organic produce, useRead More →
There is nothing quite like a cheeky quickie in a public place. Public sex comes high on many people’s sexual bucket lists and for good reason. The excitement of possibly getting caught and doing something so naughty is a guaranteed mood accelerator. Here’s a list of some of the best placesRead More →
Men think about sex 19 times a day and food 18 times! It’s clear combining the two through sensory play is a match made in heaven. Sensory play in the bedroom involves blindfolding yourself or your partner in order to heighten your other 4 senses. This is one of myRead More →
A lot of the time the only senses that get remembered in the bedroom are sight and touch. However taste, smell and sound can all also be used to arouse and stimulate. Choosing the right sexy foods is important to ensure you have a good time. No one wants chilliesRead More →